LECTURE XVII
FALSE COMFORTS FOR SINNERS
How then comfort ye me in vain, seeing in your answers there remaineth
falsehood? - Job 21:34.
Jobs ' three friends insisted that the afflictions which he suffered were sent
as a punishment for his sins, and were evidence conclusive that he was a
hypocrite, and not a good man, as he professed to be. A lengthy argument ensued,
in which Job referred to all past experience, to prove that men are not dealt
with in this way according to their character; that the distinction is not
observed in the allotments of Providence. His friends maintained the opposite,
and intimated that this world is also a place of rewards and punishments, in
which men receive good or evil, according to their deeds.
In this chapter, Job urges, by appealing to common sense and common observation
and experience, that this cannot be true, because it is a matter of fact that
the wicked are often prosperous in this world and throughout life, and hence he
infers that their judgment and punishment must be reserved for a future state.
"The wicked is reserved to the day of destruction," and "they shall be brought
forth to the day of wrath" (v. 30).
And inasmuch as the friends who came to comfort him, being in the dark on this
fundamental point, had not been able to understand his case, and so could not
afford him any comfort, but rather aggravated his grief, Job insisted upon it
that he would still look to a future state for consolation.
He rebuked them by exclaiming, in the bitterness of his soul:
"How then comfort ye me in vain, seeing in your answers there remaineth
falsehood?"
My present purpose is to make some remarks upon the various methods employed in
comforting anxious sinners; and I design:
I. To notice briefly the necessity and design of instructing anxious sinners.
II. To show that anxious sinners are always seeking comfort. Their supreme
object, indeed, is to get comfort in their distress.
III. To notice some of the false comforts often administered.
IV. Errors made in praying for sinners.
I. INSTRUCTING ANXIOUS SINNERS.
The very idea of anxiety implies some instruction. A sinner will not be anxious
at all about his future state, unless he has light enough to know that he is a
sinner, and that he is in danger of punishment and needs forgiveness. But men
are to be converted, not by physical force, nor by a change wrought in their
nature or constitution by creative power, but by the truth, made effectual by
the Holy Spirit. Conversion is yielding to the truth. Therefore, the more the
truth can be brought to bear on the mind, other things being equal, so much the
more probable is it that the individual will be converted. Unless the truth is
brought to bear upon him, it is certain he will not be converted. If it be
brought to bear, it is not absolutely certain that it will be effectual, but the
probability is in proportion to the extent to which the truth is brought to
bear.
The great design of dealing with an anxious sinner is to clear up all his
difficulties and darkness, do away with all his errors, sap the foundation of
his self-righteous hopes, and sweep away every vestige of comfort that he can
find in himself. There is often much difficulty in all this, and much
instruction is required. Sinners often cling with a death-grasp to their false
dependencies. The last place to which a sinner ever betakes himself for relief
is to Jesus Christ. Sinners had rather be saved in any other way in the world.
They had rather make any sacrifice, go to any expense, or endure any suffering,
than just throw themselves as guilty and lost rebels upon Christ alone for
salvation. This is the very last way in which they are ever willing to be saved.
It cuts up all their self-righteousness, and annihilates their pride and
self-satisfaction so completely that they are exceedingly unwilling to adopt it.
But it is as true in philosophy as it is in fact, that this is, after all, the
only way in which a sinner could find relief. If God should attempt to relieve
sinners and save them without humbling their pride and turning them from their
sins, He could not do it.
Now, the object of instructing an anxious sinner should be to bring his mind, by
the shortest route, to the practical conclusion that there is, in fact, no other
way in which he can be relieved and saved, but to renounce himself, and rest in
Christ alone. To do this with effect requires great skill.
It requires a thorough knowledge of the human heart, a clear understanding of
the plan of salvation, and a precise and definite idea of the very thing that a
sinner MUST DO in order to be saved. The ability to impart such instruction
effectually is one of the rarest qualifications in the ministry. It is
distressing to see how few ministers and how few professors of religion there
are who have in their own mind so distinct an idea of the thing to be done, that
they can go to an anxious sinner and tell him exactly what he has to do, and how
to do it, and can show him clearly that there is no possible way for him to be
saved, but by doing that very thing which they tell him, and can make him feel
the certainty that he must do it, and that unless he does that very thing he
will be lost.
II. ANXIOUS SINNERS ARE ALWAYS SEEKING COMFORT.
Sinners often imagine they are seeking Jesus Christ, and seeking religion, but
this is a mistake. No person ever sought religion, and yet remained irreligious.
What is religion? It is obeying God. Seeking religion is seeking to obey God.
The soul that hungers and thirsts after righteousness is the soul of a
Christian. To say that a person can seek to obey God, and yet not obey Him, is
absurd; for, if he is seeking religion, he is not an impenitent sinner. To seek
religion implies a willingness to obey God, and a willingness to obey God is
religion. It is a contradiction to say that an impenitent sinner is seeking
religion. It is the same as to say that he seeks and actually longs to obey God,
and God will not let him; or that he longs to embrace Jesus Christ, and Jesus
Christ will not let him come. The fact is, the anxious sinner is seeking a hope,
he is seeking pardon, and comfort, and deliverance from hell. He is anxiously
looking for some one to comfort him and make him feel better, without being
obliged to conform to such humiliating conditions as those of the Gospel. And
his anxiety and distress continue, only because he will not yield to these
terms. Unfortunately, anxious sinners find comforters enough to their liking.
Miserable comforters they are, too, "seeing in their answers there remaineth
falsehood." No doubt, millions and millions are now in hell, because there were
those around them who gave them false comfort, who had so much false pity, or
were themselves so much in the dark, that they would not let sinners remain in
anxiety till they had submitted their hearts to God, but administered falsehood.
III. WAYS IN WHICH FALSE COMFORT IS GIVEN.
There is an endless variety of ways in which false comfort is given to anxious
sinners. The more I observe the ways in which even good people deal with anxious
sinners, the more I feel grieved at the endless falsehoods with which they
attempt to comfort their anxious friends, and thus, in fact, deceive them and
beguile them out of their salvation. It often reminds me of the manner in which
people act when any one is ill. Let any one of you be ill, with almost any
disease in the world, and you will find that every person you meet with has a
remedy for that disorder, a certain cure, a specific, a panacea; and you will
find such a world of quackery all around you that if you do not take care and
SHUT IT ALL OUT, you will certainly lose your life. A man must exercise his own
judgment, for he will find as many remedies as he has friends, and each one is
tenacious of his own medicine, and perhaps will think it hard if it is not
taken. And no doubt this miserable system of quackery kills a great many people.
This is true to no greater extent respecting the diseases of the body than
respecting the diseases of the mind. People have their specifics and their
panaceas, to comfort distressed souls; and whenever they begin to talk with an
anxious sinner, they will bring in their false comforts - so much that if he
does not TAKE CARE, and mind the Word of God, he will infallibly be deceived to
his own destruction. I propose to mention a few of the falsehoods that are often
brought forward in attempting to comfort anxious sinners. Time would fail me
even to name them all.
The direct object of many persons is to comfort sinners; and they are often so
intent upon this that when they see their friends distressed, they pity them,
they feel very compassionate: "Oh, oh, I cannot bear to see them so distressed,
I must comfort them somehow"; and so they try one way, and another, and all to
comfort them! Now, God desires they should be comforted. He is benevolent, and
has kind feelings, and His heart yearns over them, when He sees them so
distressed. But He sees that there is only one way to give a sinner real
comfort. He has more benevolence and compassion than all men, and wishes to
comfort them. But He has fixed the terms, as unyielding as His Throne, on which
He will give a sinner relief. He will not alter. He knows that nothing else will
do the sinner effectual good, for nothing can make him happy, until he repents
of his sins and forsakes them, and turns to God. And therefore God will not
yield. Our object should be the same as that of God. We should feel compassion
and benevolence just as He does, and be as ready to give comfort, but we should
also be sure that it is of the right kind.
Our prime object should be to induce the sinner to obey God. His comfort ought
to be, both with us and with himself, only a secondary object; and while we are
more anxious to relieve his distress than to have him cease to abuse and
dishonor God, we are not likely, by our instructions, to do him any real good.
This is a fundamental distinction in dealing with anxious sinners, but it is
evidently overlooked by many, who seem to have no higher motives than sympathy
or compassion for the sinner. If in preaching the Gospel or instructing the
anxious, we are not actuated by a high regard to the honor of God, and rise no
higher than to desire to relieve the distressed; this is going no farther than a
constitutional sympathy, or compassion, would carry us. The overlooking of this
principle has often misled professors of religion, and when they have heard
others dealing faithfully with anxious sinners, they have accused them of
cruelty. I have often had professors bring anxious sinners to me, and beg me to
comfort them; and then, when I have probed the conscience of the sinner to the
quick, they have shuddered, and sometimes taken his part. It is sometimes
impossible to deal effectually with young people who are anxious, in the
presence of their parents, because the parents have so much more compassion for
their children than regard to the honor of God. This is a position which is all
wrong; and with such views and feelings you had better hold your tongue than say
anything to the anxious.
- 1. One of the ways in which people give
false comfort to distressed sinners is by asking them: "What have you done?
You are not so bad!"
- They see them distressed and cry out: "Why,
what have you done?" as if they had never done anything wicked, and had in
reality no occasion to feel distressed at all. A fashionable lady was
spiritually awakened, and she was going to see a minister, to converse with
him, when she was met by a friend, who turned her back, and drove off her
anxiety by the cry: "What have you done to make you feel so? I am sure you
have never committed any sin that need make you feel so!"
I have often met with cases of this kind. A mother will tell her son, who is
anxious, what an obedient child he has always been, how good and how kind, and
she begs him "not to take on so." So a husband will tell his wife, or a wife
her husband: "How good you are!" and say: "Why, you are not so bad. You have
been to hear that frightful minister, who frightens people, and you have got
excited. Be comforted, for I am sure you have not been bad enough to justify
such distress." When the truth is, they have been a great deal worse than they
think they have. No sinner ever has an idea of his sins greater than they
really are. No sinner ever has an adequate idea of how great a sinner he is.
It is not probable that any man could live under a full sight of his sins. God
has, in mercy, spared all His creatures on earth that worst of sights, a naked
human heart. The sinner's guilt is much more deep and damning than he thinks,
and his danger is much greater than he thinks it is; and if he should see his
sins as they are, probably he would not live one moment. True, a sinner may
have false notions on the subject, which may create distress, but which have
no foundation. He may think he has committed the unpardonable sin, or that he
has grieved away the Spirit, or sinned away his day of grace. But to tell the
most moral and naturally amiable person in the world that he is good enough,
or that he is not so bad as he thinks he is, is not giving him rational
comfort, but is deceiving him and ruining his soul. Let those who do it,
beware.
- 2. Others tell awakened sinners that
"conversion is a progressive work," and in this way ease their anxiety. When a
man is distressed, because he sees himself to be such a sinner, and that
unless he turns to God he will be lost, it is a great relief to have some
friend hold out the idea that he can get better by degrees, and that he is now
"coming on," little by little. They tell him: "You cannot expect to get along
all at once; I do not believe in these sudden conversions, you must wait and
let it work; you have begun well, and, by and by, you will get comfort." All
this is false as the bottomless pit. The truth is, regeneration, or
conversion, is not a progressive work.
- What is regeneration? What is it but the
beginning of obedience to God?
And is the beginning of a thing progressive? It is the first act of genuine
obedience to God - the first voluntary action of the mind, that is what God
approves, or that can be regarded as obedience to God. That is conversion.
When persons talk about conversion as a progressive work, it is absurd. They
show that they know just as much about regeneration or conversion as Nicodemus
did. They know nothing about it as they ought to know, and are no more fit to
conduct an anxious meeting, or to advise or instruct anxious sinners, than
Nicodemus was.
- 3. Another way in which anxious sinners are
deceived with false comfort is by being advised to "dismiss the subject for
the present." Men who are supposed to be wise and good have assumed to be so
much wiser than God, that when God is dealing with a sinner, by His Spirit,
and is endeavoring to bring him to an immediate decision, they think God is
crowding too hard, and that it is necessary for them to interfere. They will
advise the person to take a ride, or to go into company, or engage in business
or do something that will relieve his mind a little, at least for the present.
They might just as well say to God in plain words: "O God, Thou art too hard,
Thou goest too fast, Thou wilt make him crazy, or kill him; he cannot stand
it, poor creature; if he be so pressed he will die." Just so they take sides
against God, and practically tell the sinner himself: "God will make you crazy
if you do not dismiss the subject, and resist the Spirit, and drive Him away
from your mind."
- Such advice, if it be truly conviction of
sin that distresses the sinner, is, in no case, either safe or lawful. The
strivings of the Spirit, to bring the sinner to Christ, will never hurt him,
nor drive him crazy. He may make himself deranged by resisting; but it is
blasphemous to think that the blessed, wise, and benevolent Spirit of God
would ever act with so little care, as to derange and destroy the soul which
He came to sanctify and save. The proper course to take with a sinner, when
the striving of the Spirit throws him into distress, is, to instruct him,
clear up his views, correct his mistakes, and make the way of salvation so
plain, that he may see it right before him. Not to dismiss the subject, but to
fall in with the Spirit, and thus hush all those dreadful agonies which are
produced by resisting the Holy Ghost. REMEMBER, if an awakened sinner should
voluntarily dismiss the subject once, probably he will never take it up again.
- 4. Sometimes an awakened sinner is
comforted by being told that "religion does not consist in feeling bad." I
once heard of a Doctor of Divinity giving an anxious sinner such counsel, when
he was actually writhing under the arrows of the Almighty. Said he: "Religion
is cheerful, religion is not gloomy; do not be distressed, but dismiss your
fears; be comforted, you should not feel so bad," and such like miserable
comforts, when, in fact, the man had infinite reason to be distressed, for he
was resisting the Holy Ghost, and was in danger of grieving Him away for ever.
- It is true, religion does not consist in
"feeling bad"; but the sinner has reason to be distressed, because he has no
religion. If he had religion, he would not feel so. Were he a Christian, he
would rejoice. But to tell an impenitent sinner to be cheerful! Why, you might
as well preach this doctrine in hell, and tell them there: "Cheer up here,
cheer up: do not feel so bad!"
The sinner is on the very verge of hell, he is in rebellion against God, and
his danger is infinitely greater than he imagines. Oh, what a doctrine of
devils it is to tell a rebel against Heaven not to be distressed! What is all
his distress but rebellion itself? He is not comforted, because he refuses to
be comforted. God is ready to comfort him. You need not think to be more
compassionate than God. He will fill the sinner with comfort, in an instant,
on submission. There stands the sinner, struggling against God, and against
the Holy Ghost, and against conscience, until he is distressed almost to
death, but still he will not yield; and now some one comes in, saying: "Oh, I
hate to see you feel so bad, do not be so distressed; cheer up, cheer up;
religion does not consist in being gloomy; be comforted."
Horrid!
- 5. Whatever involves the subject of
religion in mystery is calculated to give a sinner false comfort. When a
sinner is anxious on the subject of religion, very likely, if you becloud it
in mystery, he will feel relieved. The sinner's distress arises from the
pressure of present obligation. Enlighten him on this point, and clear it up,
and if he will not yield, it will only increase his distress. But tell him
that regeneration is all a mystery, something he cannot understand, and, by
leaving him all in a fog, you relieve his anxiety.
- It is his clear view of the nature and duty
of repentance, that produces his distress. It is the light that brings agony
to his mind, while he refuses to obey. It is that which makes up the pains of
hell. And it will almost make hell in the sinner's breast here, if only made
clear enough. Only cover up this light, and his anxiety will immediately
become far less acute and thrilling, but if you take up a clear light, and
flash it broadly upon his soul, then, if he will not yield, you kindle up the
tortures of hell in his bosom.
- 6. Whatever relieves the sinner from a
sense of blame is calculated to give him false comfort. The more a man feels
himself to blame, the deeper is his distress; so, anything that lessens his
sense of blame, of course lessens his distress - but it is a comfort full of
death. If anything will help him to divide the blame, and throw a part of it
upon God, it will afford him comfort, but it is a relief that will destroy his
soul.
- 7. To tell him of his inability is false
comfort. Suppose you say to an anxious sinner: "What can you do? You are a
poor feeble creature, you can do nothing." You will thereby make him feel a
kind of despondency, but it is not that keen agony of remorse with which God
wrings the soul when He is laboring to bring the sinner to repentance.
- If you tell him he is unable to comply with
the Gospel, he naturally falls in with that relief. He says to himself: "Yes,
I am unable, I am a poor, feeble creature, I cannot do this, and certainly God
cannot send me to hell for not doing what I cannot do." Why, if I believed
that a sinner was unable, I would tell him plainly: "Do not be afraid, you are
not to blame for not complying with the call of the Gospel: for you are
unable, and God will not send you to hell for not doing what you have no
strength to do - 'Shall not the Judge of all the earth do right?'" I know it
is not common for those who talk about the sinner being "unable," to be so
consistent, and carry out their theory. But the sinner infers all this, and so
he feels relieved. It is all false, and all the comfort derived from it is
only treasuring up wrath against the Day of Wrath.
- 8. Whatever makes the impression on a
sinner's mind that he is to be passive in religion is calculated to give him
false comfort. Give him the idea that he has nothing to do but to wait God's
time; tell him conversion is the work of God, and he ought to leave it to Him;
and that he must be careful not to try to take the work out of God's hand; and
he will infer as before, that he is not to blame, and will feel relieved. If
he has only to stand still, and let God do the work, just as a man holds still
to have his arm amputated, he feels relieved. But such instruction as this, is
all wrong. If the sinner is thus to stand still, and let God do it, he
instantly infers that he is not to blame for not doing it himself; and the
inference is not only natural but legitimate.
- It is true that there is a sense in which
conversion is the work of God. But it is false, as it is often represented. It
is also true that there is a sense in which conversion is the sinner's own
act. It is ridiculous, therefore, to say that a sinner is passive in
regeneration, or passive in being converted, for conversion is his own act.
The thing to be done is that which cannot be done for him. It is something
which he must do, or it will never be done.
- 9. Telling a sinner to wait God's time.
Some years ago, in Philadelphia, I met a woman who was anxious about her soul,
and had been a long time in that state. I conversed with her, and endeavored
to learn her state. She told me a good many things, and finally said she knew
she ought to be willing to wait on God as long as He had waited upon her. She
said that God had waited on her a great many years before she would give any
attention to His call, and now she believed it was her duty to wait God's time
to show mercy to her and convert her soul. And she said this was the
instruction she had received. She must be patient, she thought, and wait God's
time, and, by and by, He would give her relief. Oh, amazing folly!
- Here is the sinner in rebellion. God comes
with pardon in one hand and a sword in the other, and tells the sinner to
repent and receive pardon, or refuse and perish. And now here comes a minister
of the Gospel and tells the sinner to "wait God's time." Virtually he says
that God is not ready to have him repent now, and is not ready to pardon him
now, and thus, in fact, throws off the blame of his impenitence upon God.
Instead of pointing out the sinner's guilt, in not submitting at once to God,
he points out God's "insincerity" - in making an offer, when, in fact, He was
not ready to grant the blessing!
I have often thought such teachers needed the rebuke of Elijah, when he met
the priests of Baal. "Cry aloud: for he is a God; either he is talking, or he
is pursuing, or he is in a journey, or peradventure he sleepeth, and must be
awaked" (1 Kings 18:27). The minister who ventures to intimate that God is not
ready, and tells the sinner to wait God's time, might almost as well tell him
that God is asleep, or gone on a journey, and cannot attend to him at present.
Miserable comforters, indeed! It is little less than outrageous blasphemy of
God. How many have gone to the judgment, red all over with the blood of souls
that they have deceived and destroyed - by telling them God was not ready to
save them, and that they must wait God's time. No doubt such a doctrine is
exceedingly calculated to afford present relief to an anxious sinner. It
warrants him to say: "God is not ready, I must wait God's time, and so I can
live in sin a while longer, till He gets ready to attend to me, and then I
will get religion."
- 10. It is false comfort to tell an anxious
sinner to do anything for relief, which he can do, and not submit his heart to
God. An anxious sinner is often willing to do anything else, but the very
thing which God requires him to do. He is willing to go to the ends of the
earth, or to pay his money, or to endure suffering, or do anything but make
full and instantaneous submission to God. Now, if you will compromise the
matter with him, and tell him of something else that he may do, and yet evade
that point, he will be very much comforted. He likes that instruction. He
says: "Oh, yes, I will do that; I like that minister, he is not so severe as
others, he seems to understand my particular case, and knows how to make
allowances."
- It often reminds me of the conduct of a
patient who is very sick, but has a great dislike for a certain physician and
a particular medicine, but that is the very physician who alone understands
treating his disease, and that the only remedy for it. Now, the patient is
willing to do anything else, and call in any other physician. He is anxious
and in distress, is asking all his friends if they cannot tell him what he
shall do. He will take all the nostrums and quack medicines in the country -
before he will submit to the only course that can bring him relief. By and by,
after he has tried everything without receiving any benefit, if he survives
the experiment he gives up this unreasonable opposition, calls in the
physician, takes the proper medicine, and is cured. Just so it is with
sinners. They will eagerly do anything, if you will only let them off from
this intolerable pressure of present obligation to submit to God.
I will mention a few of the things the telling of which to sinners distracts
their attention from the point of immediate submission.
(a) Telling a sinner he must use the means - attend meetings and pray.
Tell an anxious sinner this: "You must use the means"; and he is relieved.
"Oh, yes, I will do that, if that be all. I thought that God required me to
repent and submit to Him now. But if 'using the means' will answer, I will do
that with all my heart." He was distressed before, because he was cornered,
and did not know which way to turn. Conscience had beset him, like a wall of
fire, and urged him to repent NOW. But this relieves him at once; he feels
better, and is very thankful that he has found such a good adviser in his
distress! But he may "use the means," as he says, till the Day of Judgment,
and not be a particle the better for it, but only hasten his way to death.
What is the sinner's use of means, but rebellion against God? God uses means -
the Church uses means, to convert and save sinners, to impress them, and bring
them to submission. But what has the sinner to do with such means? It is just
telling him: "You need not submit to God now, but just use the means awhile,
and see if you cannot melt God's heart down to you, so that He will yield this
point of unconditional submission." It is a mere cavil to evade the duty of
immediate submission to God. It is true that sinners, actuated by a regard to
their own happiness, often give attention to the subject of religion, attend
meetings, and pray, and read, and many such things. But in all this they have
no regard to the honor of God, nor do they so much as intend to obey Him.
Their design is not obedience, for if it were, they would not be impenitent
sinners. They are not, therefore, using means to be Christians, but to obtain
pardon, and a hope. It is absurd to say that an impenitent sinner is using
means to repent, for this is the same as to say he is willing to repent; or,
in other words, that he does repent, and so is not an impenitent sinner. So,
to say that an unconverted sinner uses means with the design to become a
Christian, is a contradiction; for it is saying that he is willing to be a
Christian, which is the same as to say he is a Christian already.
(b) Telling a sinner to pray for a new heart. I once heard a celebrated
Sunday-school teacher do this. He was almost the father of Sunday Schools in
America. He called a little girl up to him, and began to talk to her. "My
little girl, are you a Christian?" "No, sir." "Well, you cannot be a Christian
yourself, can you?" "No, sir." "No, you cannot be a Christian yourself, you
cannot change your heart yourself, but you must pray for a new heart, that is
all you can do; pray to God, God will give you a new heart." He was an aged
and venerable man, but I almost felt disposed to rebuke him in the name of the
Lord; I could not bear to hear him deceive that child, telling her,
practically, she could not be a Christian. Does God say: "Pray for a new
heart"? Never. He says: "Make you a new heart"
(Ezekiel 18:31). The sinner is not to be told to pray to God to do his duty
for him, but to go and do it himself. I know the Psalmist prayed: "Create in
me a clean heart, and renew a right spirit within me" (Psalm 51:10). He had
faith, and prayed in faith. But that is a very different thing from setting an
obstinate rebel to pray for a new heart. An anxious sinner will be delighted
with such instruction, saying: "I knew I needed a new heart, and that I ought
to repent, but I thought I must do it myself. I am very willing to ask God to
do it; I hated to do it myself, but have no objection that God should do it,
if He will, and I will pray for it, if that is all that is required."
(c) Telling the sinner to persevere. And suppose he does persevere? He
is as certain to be lost as if he had been in hell ever since the foundation
of the world. His anxiety arises only from his resistance; and if he would
submit, it would cease; and will you tell him to persevere in the very thing
that causes his distress? Suppose my child should, in a fit of passion, throw
a book or something on the floor. I tell him: "Take it up," but instead of
minding what I say, he runs off and plays. "Take it up!" He sees I am in
earnest, and begins to look serious. "Take it up, or I shall get a rod." And I
put up my arm to get the rod. He stands still. "Take it up, or you must be
whipped." He comes slowly along to the place, and begins to weep. "Take it up,
my child, or you will certainly be punished." Now he is in distress, and sobs
and sighs as if his bosom would burst; but he still remains as stubborn as if
he knew I could not punish him. Now I begin to press him with motives to
submit and obey, but there he stands, in agony, and at length bursts out: "Oh,
father, I do feel so bad, I think I am growing better." And now, suppose a
neighbor to come in and see the child standing there, in all his agony and
stubbornness. The neighbor asks him what he is standing there for, and what is
he doing. "Oh, I am using means to pick up that book." If this neighbor should
tell the child: "Persevere, persevere, my boy, you will get it by and by,"
what should I do? Why, I would ask him to leave the house; what does he mean
by encouraging my child in rebellion?
Now, God calls the sinner to repent, He threatens him, He draws the glittering
sword, He persuades him, He uses motives, and the sinner is distressed to
agony, for he sees himself driven to the dreadful alternative of giving up his
sins or going to hell. He ought instantly to lay down his weapons, and break
his heart at once. But he resists, and struggles against conviction, and that
creates his distress. Now, will you tell him to persevere? Persevere in what?
In struggling against God! That is just the direction the devil would give.
All the devil wants is, to see him persevere just in the way he is going on,
and his destruction is sure.
(d) Telling a sinner to press forward. That is, to say to him: "You are
in a good way, only press forward, and you will get to heaven." This is on the
supposition that his face is toward heaven, when in fact his face is toward
hell, and he is pressing forward, and never more rapidly than now, while he is
resisting the Holy Ghost. Often have I heard this direction given, when the
sinner was in as bad a way as he could be. What you ought to tell him is:
"STOP, sinner, stop, do not take another step that way, it leads to hell." God
tells him to stop, and because he does not wish to stop, he is distressed.
Now, why should you attempt to comfort him in this way?
(e) Telling a sinner that he must "try" to repent and give his heart to
God.
"Oh, yes," says the sinner, "I am willing to try, I have often tried to do it,
and I will try again." Does God tell you to "try" to repent?
All the world would be willing to "try" to repent, in their way. Giving this
direction implies that it is very difficult to repent, and perhaps impossible,
and that the best thing a sinner can do is, to try and see whether he can do
it or not. What is this, but substituting your own commandment in the place of
God's. God requires nothing short of repentance and a holy heart; anything
short of that is comforting the sinner in vain, "seeing in your answers there
remaineth falsehood."
(f) Telling him to pray for repentance. "Oh, yes, I will pray for
repentance, if that is all. I was distressed because I thought God required me
to repent; but I can wait." And so he feels relieved, and is quite
comfortable.
(g) Telling a sinner to pray for conviction, or pray for the Holy Ghost
to show him his sins, or to labor to get more light on the subject of his
guilt, in order to increase his conviction.
All this is just what the sinner wants, because it lets him off from the
pressure of present obligation. He wants just a little more time. Anything
that will defer that present pressure of obligation to repent immediately, is
a relief. What does he want more conviction for? Does God give any such
direction to an impenitent sinner? God takes it for granted that he has
conviction enough already. And so he has. Do you say he cannot realize all his
sins? If he can realize only one of them, let him repent of that one, and he
is a Christian. Suppose he could see them all, what reason is there to think
he would repent of them all, any more than he would repent of that one that he
does see? All this is comforting the sinner by setting him to do that which he
can do, and yet not submit his heart to God.
- 11. Another way in which false comfort is
given to anxious sinners is, to tell them God is trying their faith by keeping
them in the furnace, and they must wait patiently upon the Lord. Just as if
God were in fault, or stood in the way of a sinner becoming a Christian. Or as
if an impenitent sinner had faith! What an abomination! Suppose somebody
should tell my child, while he was standing by the book as I have described:
"Wait patiently, my boy, your father is trying your faith." No. The sinner is
trying the patience and forbearance of God. God is not setting Himself to
torture a sinner, and teach him a lesson of patience. But He is waiting upon
him, and laboring to bring him at once into such a state of mind as will
render it consistent to fill his soul with the peace of heaven. And shall the
sinner be encouraged to resist, by the idea that God is bantering? TAKE CARE!
- God has said His Spirit shall not always
strive.
- 12. Another false comfort is, saying to the
sinner: "Do your duty, and leave your conversion with God." I once heard an
elder of a Church say to an anxious sinner: "Do your duty, and leave your
conversion to God; He will do it in His own time and way." That was just the
same as telling him, that it was not his duty to be converted NOW. He did not
say: "Do your duty, and leave your salvation with God." That would have been
proper enough, for it would have been simply telling him to submit to God, and
would have included conversion as the first duty of all. But he told him to
leave his conversion to God. And this elder, that gave such advice, was a man
of liberal education too. How absurd! As if the sinner could do his duty and
not be converted! God has required him: "Make you a new heart" (Ezekiel
18:31); and do you beware how you comfort him with an answer of falsehood.
- 13. Sometimes professors of religion will
try to comfort a sinner, by telling him: "Do not be discouraged; I was a long
time in this way before I found comfort." They will tell him: "I was under
conviction so many weeks - or perhaps so many months, or sometimes years - and
have gone through all this, and know just how you feel; your experience is the
same as mine precisely. After so long a time I found relief; and I doubt not
you will find it by and by. Do not despair, God will comfort you soon." Tell a
sinner to take courage in his rebellion! Oh, horrible! Such professors ought
to be ashamed. Suppose you were under conviction so many weeks, and afterwards
found relief, it is the very last thing you ought to tell an anxious sinner.
- What is it but encouraging him to hold out,
when his business is to submit? Did you hold out so many weeks while the
Spirit was striving with you? You only deserved so much the more to be lost,
for your obstinacy and stupidity.
Sinner! it is no sign that God will spare you so long, or that His Spirit will
remain with you to be resisted. And remember, if the Spirit is taken away, you
will be sent to hell.
- 14. Another false comfort is to say: "I
have faith to believe you will be converted." You have faith to believe? On
what does your faith rest? On the promise of God? On the influences of the
Holy Ghost? Then you are counteracting your own faith. The very design and
object of the Spirit of God is to tear away from the sinner his last vestige
of a hope while remaining in sin; to annihilate every crag and twig he may
cling to. And the object of your instruction should be the same. You should
fall in with the plan of God. It is only in this way that you can ever do any
good - by urging him to submit at once, and leave his soul in the hands of
God. But when one that he thinks is a Christian, tells him: "I have faith to
believe you will be converted," it upholds him in a false expectation. Instead
of tearing him away from his false hopes, and throwing him upon Christ, you
just turn him aside to depend upon your faith, and to find comfort because you
have faith for him. This is all false comfort, that worketh death.
- 15. Sometimes professors of religion try to
comfort an anxious sinner by telling him: "I will pray for you." This is false
comfort, for it leads the sinner to trust in those prayers, instead of
trusting in Christ. The sinner says "He is a good man, and God hears the
prayers of good men; no doubt his prayers will prevail, some time, and I shall
be converted: I do not think I shall be lost." And his anxiety, his agony, is
all gone. A woman said to a minister: "I have no hope now, but I have faith in
your prayers." Just such faith is this as the devil wants them to have - faith
in prayers instead of faith in Christ.
- 16. It is equally false comfort to say: "I
rejoice to see you in this way, and I hope you will be faithful, and hold
out." What is this but rejoicing to see him in rebellion against God? For that
is precisely the ground on which he stands. He is resisting conviction, and
resisting conscience, and resisting the Holy Ghost, and yet you rejoice to see
him in this way, and hope he will be faithful, and hold out! There is a sense,
indeed, in which it may be said that his situation is more hopeful than when
he was in stupidity. For God has convinced him, and may succeed in turning and
subduing him. But that is not the sense in which the sinner himself will
understand it. He will suppose that you think him in a hopeful way, because he
is doing better than formerly; when, in fact, his guilt and danger are greater
than they ever were before. Instead of rejoicing, you ought to be distressed
and in agony, to see him thus resisting the Holy Ghost, for every moment he
does this, he is in danger of being left of God, and given up to hardness of
heart and to despair.
- 17. Again, it is said: "You will have your
pay for this, by-and-by: God will reward you." I once heard a sinner say: "I
feel very bad, I have strong hopes that I shall get my reward." But that
individual afterwards said: "Nowhere can there be found so black a sinner as I
am, and no sin of my life seems so black as that expression." He was
overwhelmed with contrition, that he should ever have had such an idea, as to
think that God should reward him for suffering so much distress, when he had
brought it all upon himself, needlessly, by his wicked resistance to the
truth. The truth is, what such "instructors" are seeking is, to comfort the
sinner; being all in the dark themselves on the subject of religion, they, of
course, give him false comfort.
- 18. Another false comfort is, to tell the
sinner he has not repented enough.
- The truth is, he has not really repented at
all. As soon as the sinner repents, God always comforts him. This direction
implies that his feelings are right as far as they go. To tell him that he has
any repentance, is to tell him a lie, and cheat him out of his soul.
- 19. People sometimes comfort a sinner by
telling him: "If you are elected, you will be brought in." I once heard of a
case where a person under great distress of mind was sent to converse with a
neighboring minister. They talked for a long time. As the person went away,
the minister said to him: "I should like to send a line by you to your
father." His father was a pious man. The minister wrote the letter, and forgot
to seal it. As the sinner was going home, he saw that the letter was not
sealed, and he thought to himself, that probably the minister had written
about him, and his curiosity at length led him to open and read it. And there
he found it written to this purport: "Dear Sir, - I found your son under
conviction, and in great distress, and it seems not easy to say anything to
give him relief. But, if he is one of the elect, he is sure to be brought in."
He had wanted to say something to comfort the father; but now, mark: that
letter had well-nigh ruined the son's soul; for he settled down on the
doctrine of Election, saying: "If I am elected, I shall be brought in;" and
his conviction was gone. Years afterwards he was awakened and converted, but
only after a great struggle, and never until that false impression had been
obliterated from his mind, and he had been made to see that he had nothing at
all to do with the doctrine of Election, but that if he did not repent he
would be lost.
- 20. It is very common for some people to
tell an awakened sinner: "You are in a very prosperous way. I am glad to see
you so, and feel encouraged about you." It sometimes seems as if the Church
were in league with the devil to help sinners to resist the Holy Ghost. The
thing that the Holy Ghost wants to make the sinner feel is, that all his ways
are wrong, and that they lead to hell. And everybody is conspiring to make the
opposite impression! The Spirit is trying to discourage him, and they are
trying to encourage him; the Spirit to distress him by showing him that he is
all wrong, and they to comfort him by saying he is doing well. Has it come to
this, that the worst counteraction to the truth and the greatest obstacle to
the Spirit, shall spring from the Church. Sinner, do not believe them! You are
not in a hopeful way. You are not doing well, but ill - as ill as you can,
while resisting the Holy Ghost.
- 21. Another fatal way in which false
comfort is given to sinners, is by applying to them certain Scripture promises
which were designed only for saints. This is a grand device of the devil. It
is much practiced by the Universalists. But Christians often do it. For
example:
- (a) "Blessed are they that mourn:
for they shall be comforted" (Matthew 5:4). How often has this passage been
applied to anxious sinners, who were in distress because they would not submit
to God. "Blessed are they that mourn." That is true, where they mourn with
godly sorrow. But what is this sinner mourning about? He is mourning because
God's law is holy, and the terms of salvation so fixed that he cannot bring
them down to his mind. Will you tell such a rebel: "Blessed are they that
mourn"? You might just as well apply it to those that are in hell! There is
mourning there, too.
The sinner is mourning because there is no other way of salvation, because God
is so holy that He requires him to give up all his sins, and he feels that the
time has come, that he must either give them up, or be lost. Shall we tell
him, he shall be comforted? Shall we tell the devil: "You mourn now; but the
Bible says, you are blessed if you mourn; and you shall be comforted by and
by!"
(b) "Seek, and ye shall find" (Matthew 7:7). This is said to sinners in
such a way as to imply that the anxious sinner is seeking religion. This
promise was made in reference to Christians, who ask in faith, and seek to do
the will of God, and it is not applicable to those who are seeking hope or
comfort; but to holy seeking. To apply it to an impenitent sinner is only to
deceive him, for his seeking is not of this character. To tell him: "You are
seeking, are you? Well, seek, and you shall find," is to cherish a fatal
delusion. While he remains impenitent, he has not a desire which the devil
might not have, and yet remain a devil still.
If the sinner had a desire to do his duty, if he were seeking to do the will
of God, and give up his sins, he would be a Christian. But to comfort an
impenitent sinner with such a promise - you might just as well comfort Satan!
(c) "Let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall
reap, if we faint not" (Galatians 6:9). To apply this for a sinner's comfort,
is absurd.
As if he were doing something to please God! He has never done well, and never
has done more ill than now. Suppose my neighbor, who came in while I was
trying to subdue my child, should say to the child, "In due season you shall
reap, if you faint not," what should I say? "Reap? Yes, you shall reap; if you
do not give up your obstinacy, you shall reap indeed, for I will apply the
rod." So the struggling sinner shall reap the damnation of hell, if he does
not give up his sins.
- 22. Some professors of religion, when they
attempt to converse with awakened sinners, are very fond of saying: "I will
tell you my experience."
- This is a dangerous snare, and often gives
the devil a handle to lead the sinner to hell, by getting him to copy your
experience. If you tell it to the sinner, and he thinks it is a Christian
experience, he will almost infallibly be trying to imitate it, so that,
instead of following the Gospel, or the leadings of the Spirit in his own
soul, he is following your example. This is absurd as well as dangerous. No
two were ever exercised just alike. Men's experiences are as much unlike as
are their countenances. Such a course is likely to mislead him. The design is,
often, to encourage him at the very point where he ought not to be encouraged,
before he has submitted to God. And it is calculated to impede the work of God
in his soul.
- 23. How many times will people tell an
awakened sinner that God has begun a good work in him, and will carry it on. I
have known parents talk so with their children, and, as soon as they have seen
their children awakened, give up all anxiety about them, and settle down at
ease, thinking that now God had begun a work in their children He would carry
it on. It would be just as rational for a farmer to say about his grain, as
soon as it comes up out of the ground: "Well, God has begun a good work in my
field, and He will carry it on." What would be thought of a farmer who should
neglect to put up his fence, because God has begun the work of giving him a
crop of grain? If you tell a sinner so, and he believes you, it will certainly
be his destruction, for it will prevent his doing that which is absolutely
indispensable to his being saved. If, as soon as the sinner is awakened, he is
taught that, God having begun a good work, that only needs to be carried on,
He will surely carry it on, he sees that there is no further occasion to be
anxious, for, in fact, he has nothing more to do. And so he will be relieved
from that intolerable pressure of present obligation to repent and submit to
God. And if he is relieved from his sense of obligation to do it, he will
never do it.
- 24. Some will tell the sinner: "Well, you
have broken off your sins, have you?" "Oh, yes," says the sinner; when it is
all false; he has never forsaken his sins for a moment, he has only exchanged
one form of sin for another; only placed himself in a new attitude of
resistance. And to tell him that he has broken them off is to give him false
comfort.
- 25. Sometimes this direction is given for
the purpose of relieving the agony of an anxious sinner: "Do what you can, and
God will do the rest"; or: "Do what you can, and God will help you." This is
the same as telling a sinner: "You cannot do what God requires you to do, but
if you do what you can, God will help you as to the rest." Now, sinners often
get the idea that they have done all they can, when, in fact, they have done
nothing at all, except that they have resisted God with all their might. I
have often heard them say: "I have done all I can, and I get no relief, what
can I do more?" Now, you can see how comforting it must be to such a one to
have a professor of religion come in and say: "If you will do what you can,
God will help you." It relieves all his keen distress at once. He may be
uneasy, and unhappy, but his agony is gone.
- 26. Again, they say: "You should be
thankful for what you have, and hope for more." If the sinner is convicted,
they tell him he should be thankful for conviction, and hope for conversion.
If he has any feeling, he should be thankful for what feeling he has, just as
if his feeling were religious feeling,when he has no more religion than Satan.
He has reason to be thankful, indeed: thankful that he is out of hell, and
thankful that God is yet waiting on him. But it is ridiculous to tell him that
he should be thankful in regard to the state of his mind, when he is all the
while resisting his Maker with all his might.
IV. ERRORS MADE IN PRAYING FOR SINNERS.
I will here mention a few errors that are made in praying for sinners, by which
an unhappy impression is made on their minds, in consequence of which they often
obtain false comfort in their distress.
- 1. People sometimes pray for sinners as if
they deserved TO BE PITIED more than BLAMED. They pray for them as "MOURNERS":
"Lord, help these pensive mourners"! As if they were just mourners, like one
that had lost a friend, or met with some other calamity, which he could not
help, and so were greatly to be pitied, sitting there, sad, pensive, and
sighing. The Bible never talks so. It pities sinners, but it pities them as
mad and guilty rebels, deserving to go to hell; not as poor pensive mourners,
who want to be relieved, but can do nothing but sit and mourn.
- 2. Praying for them as "poor sinners." Does
the Bible ever use such language as this? The Bible never speaks of them as
"poor sinners," as if they deserved to be pitied more than blamed. Christ
pities sinners in His heart. And so does God pity them. He feels in His heart
all the gushings of compassion for them, when He sees them going on, obstinate
and willful in gratifying their own lusts, at the peril of His eternal wrath.
But He never lets an impression escape from Him, as if the sinner were just a
"poor creature" - to be pitied, as if he could not help his position. The idea
that he is poor, rather than wicked; unfortunate, rather than guilty, relieves
the sinner greatly. I have seen the sinner writhe with agony under the truth,
in a meeting, until somebody began to pray for him as a "poor" creature. And
then he would gush out into tears, and weep profusely, and think he was
greatly benefitted by such a prayer, saying: "Oh, what a good prayer that
was!" If you go now and converse with that sinner, you will probably find that
he is still pitying himself as a poor unfortunate creature - perhaps even
weeping over his unhappy condition; but his conviction of sin, his deep
impressions of awful guilt, are all gone.
- 3. Praying that God would "help the sinner
to repent." "O Lord, enable this poor sinner to repent now." This conveys the
idea to the sinner's mind, that he is now trying with all his might to repent,
and that he cannot do it, and therefore Christians are calling on God to help
him, and enable him to do it. Most professors of religion pray for sinners,
not that God would make them willing to repent, but that He would enable them,
or make them able. No wonder their prayers are not heard. They relieve the
sinner of his sense of responsibility, and that relieves his distress. But it
is an insult to God, as if God had commanded a sinner to do what He could not
do.
- 4. People sometimes pray: "Lord, these
sinners are seeking Thee, sorrowing." This language is an allusion to what
took place at the time when Jesus was a little boy, and went into the Temple
to talk with the rabbis and doctors. His parents, you recollect, went a day's
journey towards home before they missed him; then they turned back, and, after
looking all around, they found the little Jesus standing in the Temple
disputing with the learned men. Then "His mother said unto Him, Son, why hast
Thou thus dealt with us? behold, Thy father and I have sought Thee sorrowing"
(Luke 2:48). And so this prayer represents sinners as seeking Jesus, but He
hides Himself from them, and they look all around, and hunt, and try to find
Him, and wonder where He is, and say: "Lord, we have sought Jesus these three
days sorrowing." It is a LIE! No sinner ever sought Jesus with all his heart
three days, or three minutes, and could not find Him. Jesus "stands at the
door, and knocks" (Revelation 3:20).
- He is right before the sinner, pleading
with him, and facing him with all his false pretenses. Seeking Jesus! The
sinner may cry: "Oh, how I am sorrowing, and seeking Jesus," but it is no such
thing; Jesus is seeking him.
And yet how many oppressed consciences are relieved and comforted by hearing
one of these prayers.
- 5. "Lord, have mercy on these sinners, who
are seeking Thy love to know." This is a favorite expression with many; as if
sinners were seeking to know the love of Christ, and could not. No such thing.
They are not seeking the love of Christ, but seeking to get to heaven without
Jesus Christ. As if they were seeking it, and He was so hard-hearted that He
would not let them have it!
- 6. "Lord, have mercy on these penitent
souls"; calling anxious sinners "penitent souls"! If they are truly penitent,
they are Christians. To make the impression on an unconverted sinner that he
is penitent, is to make him believe a lie. But it is very comforting to the
sinner, and he likes to take it up, and pray it over again: "O Lord, I am a
poor penitent soul, I am very penitent, I am so distressed, Lord, have mercy
on a poor penitent."
- Dreadful delusion, to lead an impenitent
sinner to pray as a penitent!
- 7. Sometimes people pray for anxious
sinners as "humble souls." "O Lord, these sinners have humbled themselves."
But that is not true, they have not humbled themselves; if they had, the Lord
would have raised them up and comforted them, as He has promised. There is a
hymn of this character that has done much mischief. It begins:
- Come, HUMBLE sinner, in whose breast A
thousand thoughts revolve.
This hymn was once given by a minister to an awakened sinner, as one
applicable to his case. He began to read: "Come, humble sinner." He stopped:
"Humble sinner: that is not applicable to me, I am not a humble sinner." Ah,
how well was it for him that the Holy Ghost had taught him better than the
hymn! If the hymn had said: "Come, anxious sinner," or "guilty sinner," or
"trembling sinner," it would have been well enough, but to call him a "humble"
sinner would not do. There are vast numbers of hymns of the same character. It
is very common to find sinners quoting the false sentiments of some hymn, to
excuse themselves in rebellion against God.
A minister told me he heard a prayer, quite lately, in these words: "O Lord,
these sinners have humbled themselves, and come to Thee as well as they know
how; if they knew any better, they would do better; but, O Lord, as they have
come to Thee in the best manner they can, we pray Thee to accept them and show
mercy." Horrible!
- 8. Many pray: "Father, forgive them; for
they know not what they do" (Luke 23:34). This is the prayer which Christ made
for His murderers; and, in their case, it was true; they did not know what
they were doing, for they did not believe that Jesus Christ was the Messiah.
But it cannot be said of sinners under the Gospel that they do not know what
they are doing. They do know what they are doing. They do not see the full
extent of it; but they do know that they are sinning against God, and
rejecting Christ; and the difficulty is that they are unwilling to submit to
God. But such a prayer is calculated to make the sinner feel relieved, and
make him say: "Lord, how canst Thou blame me so? I am a poor ignorant
creature, I do not know how to do what is required of me; if I knew how, I
would do it."
- 9. Another expression is: "Lord, direct
these sinners, who are inquiring the way to Zion with their faces
thitherward." But this language is only applicable to Christians. Sinners have
not their faces towards Zion; their faces are set towards hell! And how can a
sinner be said to be "inquiring the way" to Zion, when he has no disposition
to go there? The real difficulty is that he is unwilling to WALK in the way in
which he knows he ought to go.
- 10. People pray that sinners "may have more
conviction." Or, they pray that sinners may "go home solemn and tender, and
take the subject into consideration," instead of praying that they may repent
now. Or, they pray as if they supposed the sinner to be willing to do what is
required.
- All such prayers are just such prayers as
the devil wants; he wishes to have such prayers, and I dare say he does not
care how many such are offered.
Sometimes, in an anxious meeting, or when sinners have been called to the
anxious seats, after the minister has made plain the way of salvation, and
taken away all stumbling blocks out of the path, just when the sinners are
ready to YIELD some one will be called on to pray, and instead of praying that
they may repent now, he begins: "O' Lord, we pray that these sinners may be
solemn, that they may have a deep sense of their sinfulness, that they may go
home impressed with their lost condition, that they may attempt nothing in
their own strength, that they may not lose their convictions, and that, in
Thine own time and way, they may be brought into the glorious light and
liberty of the sons of God."
Instead of bringing them right up to the point of immediate submission, on the
spot, it gives them time to breathe, it lessens the pressure of conviction, so
that a sinner breathes freely again, and feels relieved, and sits down at his
ease. Thus, when the sinner is brought up, as it were, and stands at the gate
of the Kingdom, such a prayer, instead of pushing him in, sets him back again:
"There, poor thing, sit there till God helps you."
- 11. Christians sometimes pray in such a
manner as to make the impression that CHRIST IS THE SINNER'S FRIEND in a
different sense from that in which God the Father is his Friend. They pray to
Christ: "O Thou Friend of sinners," as if God were full of vengeance, just
going to crush the poor wretch, till Jesus Christ comes in and takes his part,
and delivers him. Now, this is all wrong. The Father and the Son are perfectly
agreed, their feelings are all the same, and both are equally disposed to have
sinners saved. And to make such an impression deceives the sinner, and leads
to wrong feelings towards God. To represent God the Father as standing over
him, with the sword of justice in His hand, eager to strike the blow, till
Christ interposes, is not right. The Father is as much the sinner's Friend as
the Son. His compassion is equal. But if the sinner get this unfavorable idea
of God the Father, how is he ever to love Him with all his heart, so as to
say: "Abba, Father"?
- 12. The impression is often made, by the
manner of praying, that you do not expect sinners to repent now, or that you
expect God to fulfill what is their duty, or that you wish to encourage them
to trust in your prayers.
- And so, sinners are ruined. Never pray so
as to make the impression on sinners, that you secretly hope they are
Christians already, or that you feel strong confidence they will be, by and
by, or that you half believe they are converted now. This is always unhappy.
In this way, multitudes are deceived with false comfort, and prevented, just
at the critical point, from making the final surrender of themselves to God.
REMARKS.
- 1. Many persons who deal in this way with
anxious sinners, do so from false pity. They feel so much sympathy and
compassion, that they cannot bear to tell sinners the truth which is necessary
to save them. As well might a surgeon, when he sees that a man's arm must be
amputated, or death must result, indulge this feeling of false pity, and just
put on a plaster, and give him an opiate. There is no benevolence in that.
True benevolence would lead the surgeon to be cool and calm, and, with a keen
knife, cut the limb off, and save the life. It is false tenderness to do
anything short of that. I once saw a woman under distress of mind, who for
months had been driven well nigh to despair. Her friends had tried all the
false comforts without effect, and they brought her to see a minister.
- She was emaciated, and worn out with agony.
The minister set his eye upon her, and poured in the truth upon her mind, and
rebuked her in a most pointed manner. The woman who was with her interfered:
she thought it cruel, and said: "Oh, do comfort her, she is so distressed, do
not trouble her any more, she cannot bear it." Whereupon the minister turned,
and rebuked her, and sent her away, and then poured in the truth upon the
anxious sinner like fire, so that in five minutes she was converted, and went
home full of joy. The plain truth swept all her false notions away, and in a
few moments she was joyful in God.
- 2. The treatment of anxious sinners, which
ministers such false comforts is, in fact, cruelty. It is cruel as the grave,
as cruel as hell, for it is calculated to send the sinner down to the burning
abyss. Christians feel compassion for the anxious, and so they ought. But the
last thing they ought to do is to flinch just at the point where it comes to a
crisis. They should feel compassion, but they should show it just as the
surgeon does, when he deliberately goes to work, in the right and best way,
and cuts off the man's arm, and thus cures him and saves his life. Just so
Christians should let the sinner see their compassion and tenderness, but they
should take God's part, fully and decidedly. They should lay open to the
sinner the worst of his case, expose his guilt and danger, and then lead him
right up to the cross, and insist on instant submission. They must have
firmness enough to do this work thoroughly; and, if they see the sinner
distressed and in agony, still they must press him right on, and not give way
in the least till he yields.
- To do this often requires nerve. I have
often been placed in circumstances where I have realized this. I have found
myself surrounded with anxious sinners, in such distress as to make every
nerve tremble; some overcome with emotion and lying on the floor; some
applying camphor to prevent their fainting; others shrieking out as if they
were just going to hell. Now, suppose any one should give false comfort in
such a case as this? Suppose he had not nerve enough to bring them right up to
the point of instant and absolute submission? How unfit would such a man be,
to be trusted in such a case!
- 3. Sometimes sinners become deranged
through despair and anguish of mind. Whenever this is the case, it is almost
always because those who deal with them try to encourage them with false
comfort, and thus lead them to such a conflict with the Holy Ghost. They try
to hold them up, while God is trying to break them down. And, by and by, the
sinner's mind gets confused with this contrariety of influences, and he either
goes deranged, or is driven to despair.
- 4. If you are going to deal with sinners,
remember that you are soon to meet them in Judgment, therefore be sure to
treat them in such a way that if they are lost, it will be their own fault. Do
not try to comfort them with false notions now, and have them reproach you
with it then. Better to suppress your false sympathy, and let the naked truth
"pierce even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and
marrow" (Hebrews 4:12), than to soothe them with false comfort, and beguile
them away from God!
- 5. Sinner, if you converse with any
Christians, and they tell you to do anything, first ask: "If I do that, shall
I be saved?" You may be anxious, and not be saved. You may pray, and not be
saved. You may read your Bible, and not be saved. You may use means, in your
own way, and not be saved. Whatever they tell you to do, if you can do it and
not be saved, do not attend to such instructions. They are calculated to give
you false comfort, and divert your attention from the main thing to be done,
and beguile you down to hell. Do not follow any such directions, lest you
should die while doing so, for then there is no retrievement.
- 6. Finally; let a Christian never tell a
sinner anything, or give him any direction, that will lead him to stop short
of, or that does not include, submission to God. To let him stop at any point
short of this, is infinitely dangerous. Suppose you are at an anxious meeting,
or a prayer meeting, and you tell a sinner to pray, or to read, or to do
anything that comes short of saving repentance, and he should fall and break
his neck that night, of whom would his blood be required? A youth in New
England once met a minister in the street, and asked him "what he should do to
be saved?"
- The minister told him to go home, and go
into his room, and kneel down and give his heart to God. "Sir," said the boy,
"I feel so bad, I am afraid I shall not live to get home." The minister saw
his error, felt the rebuke thus unconsciously given by a youth, and then told
him: "Well, then, give your heart to God here, and then go home to your room
and tell Him of it."
It is enough to make one's heart bleed to see so many miserable comforters for
anxious sinners "in whose answers there remaineth falsehood." What a vast
amount of spiritual quackery there is in the world, and how many "forgers of
lies" there are, "physicians of no value" (Job 13:4) who know no better than
to comfort sinners with false hopes, and delude them with their "old wives'
fables" (1 Timothy 4:7) and nonsense, or who give way to false tenderness and
sympathy, till they have not firmness enough to see the sword of the Spirit
applied, cutting men to the soul, and laying open the sinner's naked heart.
Alas, that so many are ever put into the ministry, who have not skill enough
to stand by and see the Spirit of God to do His work, in breaking up the old
foundations, and crushing all the rotten hopes of a sinner, and breaking him
down at the feet of Jesus.
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