| FOURTEENTH LESSON. |
| 'When ye stand praying, forgive;' Or, Prayer and Love. |
'And whensoever ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have aught against any one;
that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.'--MARK
xi. 25.
THESE words follow
immediately on the great prayer-promise, 'All things whatsoever ye pray, believe
that ye have received them, and ye shall have them.' We have already seen how
the words that preceded that promise, 'Have faith in God,' taught us that in
prayer all depends upon our relation to God being clear; these words that follow
on it remind us that our relation with fellow-men must be clear too. Love to
God and love to our neighbour are inseparable: the prayer from a heart, that is
either not right with God on the one side, or with men on the other, cannot
prevail. Faith and love are essential to each other.
We find that this is a thought to which our Lord frequently gave expression. In
the Sermon on the Mount (Matt. v. 23, 24), when speaking of the sixth
commandment, He taught His disciples how impossible acceptable worship to the
Father was if everything were not right with the brother: 'If thou art offering
thy gift at the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath aught against
thee, leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled
to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.' And so later, when speaking
of prayer to God, after having taught us to pray, 'Forgive us our debts, as we
also have forgiven our debtors,' He added at the close of the prayer: 'If you
forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your
trespasses.' At the close of the parable of the unmerciful servant He applies
His teaching in the words: 'So shall also my Heavenly Father do unto you, if ye
forgive not every one his brother from your hearts.' And so here, beside the
dried-up fig-tree, where He speaks of the wonderful power of faith and the
prayer of faith, He all at once, apparently without connection, introduces the
thought, 'Whensoever ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have aught against any
one; that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.'
It is as if the Lord had learned during His life at Nazareth and afterwards
that disobedience to the law of love to men was the great sin even of praying
people, and the great cause of the feebleness of their prayer. And it is as if
He wanted to lead us into His own blessed experience that nothing gives such
liberty of access and such power in believing as the consciousness that we have
given ourselves in love and compassion, for those whom God loves.
The first lesson taught here is that of a forgiving disposition. We pray,
'Forgive, even as we have forgiven.' Scripture says, 'Forgive one
another, even as God also in Christ forgave you.' God's full and free
forgiveness is to be the rule of ours with men. Otherwise our reluctant,
half-hearted forgiveness, which is not forgiveness at all, will be God's rule
with us. Every prayer rests upon our faith in God's pardoning grace. If God
dealt with us after our sins, not one prayer could be heard. Pardon opens the
door to all God's love and blessing: because God has pardoned all our sin, our
prayer can prevail to obtain all we need. The deep sure ground of answer to
prayer is God's forgiving love. When it has taken possession of the heart, we
pray in faith. But also, when it has taken possession of the heart, we live in
love. God's forgiving disposition, revealed in His love to us, becomes a
disposition in us; as the power of His forgiving love shed abroad and dwelling
within us, we forgive even as He forgives. If there be great and grievous
injury or injustice done us, we seek first of all to possess a Godlike
disposition; to be kept from a sense of wounded honour, from a desire to
maintain our rights, or from rewarding the offender as he has deserved. In the
little annoyances of daily life, we are watchful not to excuse the hasty temper,
the sharp word, the quick judgment, with the thought that we mean no harm, that
we do not keep the anger long, or that it would be too much to expect from
feeble human nature, that we should really forgive the way God and Christ do.
No, we take the command literally, 'Even as Christ forgave, so also
do ye.' The blood that cleanses the conscience from dead works, cleanses from
selfishness too; the love it reveals is pardoning love, that takes possession of
us and flows through us to others. Our forgiving love to men is the evidence of
the reality of God's forgiving love in us, and so the condition of the prayer of
faith.
There is a second, more general lesson: our daily life in the world is made the
test of our intercourse with God in prayer. How often the Christian, when he
comes to pray, does his utmost to cultivate certain frames of mind which he
thinks will be pleasing. He does not understand, or forgets, that life does not
consist of so many loose pieces, of which now the one, then the other, can be
taken up. Life is a whole, and the pious frame of the hour of prayer is judged
of by God from the ordinary frame of the daily life of which the hour of prayer
is but a small part. Not the feeling I call up, but the tone of my life during
the day, is God's criterion of what I really am and desire. My drawing nigh to
God is of one piece with my intercourse with men and earth: failure here will
cause failure there. And that not only when there is the distinct consciousness
of anything wrong between my neighbour and myself; but the ordinary current of
my thinking and judging, the unloving thoughts and words I allow to pass
unnoticed, can hinder my prayer. The effectual prayer of faith comes out from a
life given up to the will and the love of God. Not according to what I try to
be when praying, but what I am when not praying, is my prayer dealt with by God.
We may gather these thoughts into a third lesson: In our life with men the one
thing on which everything depends is love. The spirit of forgiveness is the
spirit of love. Because God is love, He forgives: it is only when we are
dwelling in love that we can forgive as God forgives. In love to the brethren
we have the evidence of love to the Father, the ground of confidence before God,
and the assurance that our prayer will be heard, (1 John iv. 20, iii. 18-21,
23.). 'Let us love in deed and truth; hereby shall we assure our heart
before Him. If our heart condemn us not, we have boldness toward God, and
whatever we ask, we receive of Him.' Neither faith nor work will profit if we
have not love; it is love that unites with God, it is love that proves the
reality of faith. As essential as in the word that precedes the great
prayer-promise in Mark xi. 24, 'Have faith in God,' is this one that follows it,
'Have love to men.' The right relations to the living God above me, and the
living men around me, are the conditions of effectual prayer.
This love is of special consequence when we labour for such and pray for them.
We sometimes give ourselves to work for Christ, from zeal for His cause, as we
call it, or for our own spiritual health, without giving ourselves in personal
self-sacrificing love for those whose souls we seek. No wonder that our faith
is feeble and does not conquer. To look on each wretched one, however
unloveable he be, in the light of the tender love of Jesus the Shepherd seeking
the lost; to see Jesus Christ in him, and to take him up, for Jesus' sake, in a
heart that really loves, --this, this is the secret of believing prayer and
successful effort. Jesus, in speaking of forgiveness, speaks of love as its
root. Just as in the Sermon on the Mount He connected His teaching and promises
about prayer with the call to be merciful, as the Father in heaven is merciful
(Matt. v. 7, 9, 22, 38-48), so we see it here: a loving life is the condition
of believing prayer.
It has been said: There is nothing so heart-searching as believing prayer, or
even the honest effort to pray in faith. O let us not turn the edge of that
self-examination by the thought that God does not hear our prayer for reasons
known to Himself alone. By no means. 'Ye ask and receive not, because ye ask
amiss.' Let that word of God search us. Let us ask whether our prayer be
indeed the expression of a life wholly given over to the will of God and the
love of man. Love is the only soil in which faith can strike its roots and
thrive. As it throws its arms up, and opens its heart heavenward, the Father
always looks to see if it has them opened towards the evil and the unworthy too.
In that love, not indeed the love of perfect attainment, but the love of fixed
purpose and sincere obedience, faith can alone obtain the blessing. It is he
who gives himself to let the love of God dwell in him, and in the practice of
daily life to love as God loves, who will have the power to believe in the Love
that hears his every prayer. It is the Lamb, who is in the midst of the
throne: it is suffering and forbearing love that prevails with God in prayer.
The merciful shall obtain mercy; the meek shall inherit the earth.
Blessed Father! Thou art Love, and only he that abideth in love abideth in Thee
and in fellowship with Thee. The Blessed Son hath this day again taught me how
deeply true this is of my fellowship with Thee in prayer. O my God! let Thy
love, shed abroad in my heart by the Holy Spirit, be in me a fountain of love to
all around me, that out of a life in love may spring the power of believing
prayer. O my Father! grant by the Holy Spirit that this may be my experience,
that a life in love to all around me is the gate to a life in the love of my
God. And give me especially to find in the joy with which I forgive day by day
whoever might offend me, the proof that Thy forgiveness to me is a power and a
life.
Lord Jesus! my Blessed Teacher! teach Thou me to forgive and to love. Let the
power of Thy blood make the pardon of my sins such a reality, that forgiveness,
as shown by Thee to me, and by me to others, may be the very joy of heaven.
Show me whatever in my intercourse with fellowmen might hinder my fellowship
with God, so that my daily life in my own home and in society may be the school
in which strength and confidence are gathered for the prayer of faith. Amen.
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